Thursday, February 5, 2009

I don't believe.....

... that love has a brain...

We've all heard it before, "true love will find you.." or "love catches us when we least expect it.."

I DON"T BELIEVE ANY OF THAT.

I believe that we all have the capacity to give and receive love and that some people inspire the best in us....

BUT I CANNOT ACCEPT THE NOTION THAT LOVE HAS A MYSTERIOUS POWER THAT OPERATES OUTSIDE OF OUR OWN CREATION.

In this world there is a clear relationship between COINCIDENCE and MEANING.

We create both.

Coincidence = unintentional

Meaning = intentional

When love "finds us" it is a result of a series of previous occurrences in the world. We then give that love meaning in order to a.) make our lives feel more special or b.) explain something that we simply cannot trace.

Love is real... but it does not find you, nor do you find it...

THERE IS NO "PLAN"

Some of us happen to meet someone that we are compatible with and some of us don't, but love cannot choose which of us is deserving.

WE ALL DESERVE LOVE.

Love can only survive for as long as TWO people are willing to WORK to keep it alive. It doesn't go away unless we (or one of us) allows it to.

Love and relationships are like anything else in life. If you wish to be successful you must a.) work hard and b.) get a little lucky.

luck = fortunate coincidence

-Dekk-

P.S.- Mother, I love you with all of my heart... Forever... Men are stupid for not doing the same. Fuck 'em.

1 comment:

hanif said...

luck= your favorite polysyllabic rapping emcee.